Pickup Line and Conversation Tips

Do you want to gain confidence in pickup line and conversation techniques? Was there ever a moment in your life where you saw a girl that intrigued you, but you never did anything about it? It was a missed opportunity. Don’t let another one happen to you. Instead, gain confidence in approaching women and talking to them with an effective pickup line. What have you got to lose? Absolutely nothing. When you approach a girl, don’t worry so much about whether it will lead to “success” or “failure”. That is the wrong attitude. Rather just try to make a woman feel good and get her to smile. Don’t have any expectations. What is the worse thing that can happen? She turns her back to you and walks away. Big deal. Just move on. Don’t take it personally. Just be proud of yourself, instead of existing, you are out there - meeting, connecting and LIVING.

To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best. - William M. Thackeray

(1) Women Like Marriage References

Since 80% of women said they are dating to get married, help fulfill her fantasy in your pickup line. Use play acting and tap into that theatrical side of yourself.

Pretend to be her Fiancée

“Hey honey, did you finish registering at Crate and Barrel? Sorry I couldn’t be there with you today, but my parents kept me at the travel agent late planning each extravagant detail of their Hawaii honeymoon present to us.”

Pretend to Propose

Buy a gumball machine ring, approach her, say “May I?”, take her hand gently, propose, then slip it on her finger. Be creative in your marriage proposal to this woman you have never met. Your creativity will surely intrigue her.

(2)Say it In a T-Shirt

If you have trouble with pickup line delivery, don't say anything, just wear it on a t-shirt. All you have to do is pick a t-shirt size, color, then type in a phrase, and your are done. Then when you approach her, she will see it, and it will be a great and funny way to start a conversation. Just make sure your saying is witty or tells something about yourself and definitely should not be offensive. Pick-Up Line T-Shirt

(3) Women Love Compliments

80% of women’s love language is compliments. So use flattery in your pickup line which is a very effective way of keeping a woman’s attention. You can show your appreciation for her beauty by complimenting her on her eyes, hair, etc. but not her anatomy.

“I don’t want to alarm you, but every man here has been dying to approach you but they’re just too intimidated by your beauty. There's no telling what this mob might do next. I’m here to rescue you. No thanks needed, I’m just a kind-hearted concerned citizen. Don’t worry about my safety. If you even smile at me, it may put my life in danger, but it will be worth it.”

“My friend over there dared me to approach the most beautiful girl in the room. Could you help me out and talk to me for just a few minutes?”

(4) Women Like Cute and Funny

Women like to laugh and they also like originality. Some women have heard every pickup line out there. So, if you are able to think on your feet, and can be unique in your approach, use your gift in conversing with women.

“Hey maybe we could skip rocks together sometime at the creek.”

“Hey I noticed that you were checking me out, and I just want to let you know that I don’t normally date beautiful blondes (brunettes, redheads), but your smile intrigued me so here I am.”

(5) Pickup Line for the Unique Situation

There are attractive women all around you as you go about your daily life, at the grocery store, the bank, a restaurant, etc. To become comfortable in talking to women, start making conversation with strangers that you meet. That way there’s nothing to be nervous about, and this exercise can help you develop your conversation skills.

Book Store

“I’m looking for a book for my mother, do you have any favorites in this section”

Waiting In Line

Comment on an item that the person in front of you is purchasing, and ask her about it.

Grocery Store

You can either knock down a half dozen boxes of crackers in the aisle and hope she’ll rush over to help you, or just start talking without a food avalanche to back you up.

“Can you tell me where the avocados are? It’s hard cooking for one. I end up eating a lot of salads. What about you?”

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